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One Branch Remains


Have you ever found yourself zipping towards a goal in your life, only to discover that God’s plan was slightly different?

Of course. Off course. 

I have such a bad habit, rushing into what I believe to be amazing God opportunities, excited for the fruit that I can produce for Him through yet another adventure. This habit in itself isn’t my demise. Oh no. You see, not only do I run into these opportunities sometimes unprepared, but I bring with me this hidden agenda that through this open door God will bring my dream into reality…minus any hard work on my part.

Of course. Off course.

Not only do I want each open door to produce fruit, I have a tendency to silently dream exactly how the fruit should appear.

Fruit in new relationships.

Fruit is new speaking and writing opportunities.

Fruit in new places to travel.

Fruit in making a difference in the lives of others through Christ.

After all, I’m doing the work so I should get a say in this production process. Right?

That’s just plain off course. 

Sometimes bluntness is the hardest dose of reality. God, I will do this because I can see that You are going to use me to (fill in the blank here). Oh really? You haven’t done this? I guess it’s just me.

Right smack in the middle of my third week of my Christian Life Coach adventure, God has been redefining a few terms in my life. You see, in January, Elevation Church  (Space Coast extension is where we attend and is completely amazing) started memorizing John chapter 15 (yes, you read correctly…chapter 15). Memorizing God’s Word tends to redefine quite a lot in our lives.

When we start memorizing His Word and allow Truth to take root, our words gain His power.

Suddenly, we start seeing changes in the way we think, in the way we feel and frankly, in the way we see ourselves.

As I entered a normal morning run last Saturday, I allowed my imagination to run wild, dreaming of my future clients, coaching through change and watching true life transformation through Christ. As the exhilaration of hitting that last second basketball shot roared with excitement through my body, God’s Word took over.

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. He cuts off every branch in me that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful. (‭John‬ ‭15‬:‭1-2‬ NIV)

I am just a branch.

A branch with huge dreams of producing fruit with Him and through Him…but first I am simply a branch in Him.

[tweetthis]I’m a branch w/ dreams of producing fruit WITH Him and THROUGH Him…but first I’m a branch IN Him.[/tweetthis]

A branch connected to the Source and constantly in need of pruning.

My exhilaration moment transformed to a complete God moment. One that both set me back in my place but also changed my pace.

God decides the fruit and frankly, the areas of my life that require deep pruning. (Not me).

God decides how and when the fruit will take place. (Again, not me).

God dictates the weather around my need for growth. (Still, not me either).

In all reality and flat-out bluntness – branches are called to only do one main job: remain. (Yep, that’s me). 

Remain through the wind, the rain, the scorching sun and the snow.

Remain clinging to the love of Christ that will always show.

Remain even when we have no clue where the next step will lead.

Remain in Him, His Truths and trust through His pruning.


Remaining asks no questions about fruit taste or size,

Remaining requires a deep closeness to Jesus’ side,

Remaining in Him for strength each and everyday,

Remaining and seeing His fruit through your branch that He chose to save.


He chooses you to showcase His glory,

Bearing His fruit, becoming part of His story,

Don’t be too focused on how this journey should end,

Or you will miss what it really looks like to remain in His hands.


Before you can see the fruit He promises, you must simply learn what it looks like to remain in His love. This may take a while, but my friend, you can find joy in the process. I’m learning how to simply remain, put my dreams in His hands and trust in the Source to make the process fruitful. (Well, okay, learning to remain is a process too.) Are you in?

About the Author Bethany

Hello and welcome to Step Out And Thrive Ministries! My name is Bethany Boring and I am proud to be called a child of God before any other title or role. I am a mom to 3 amazing boys. I enjoy writing for this Step Out And Thrive community and walking with you as we venture through the ups and downs of life together. I am an ICF trained Certified Professional Christian Life Coach (Christian Coach Institute Graduate), Motivational and Inspirational Speaker, mentor, Certified Human Behavioral Consultant (DISC Personality) and an author. As always - dare to do more than just survive, step out and thrive!

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Jennifer says February 4, 2015

That is one of my favorite verses. I love the image of remaining in His love.

    Bethany says February 4, 2015

    Isn’t it an amazing chapter? Thanks Jennifer!

Dolly@Soulstops says February 4, 2015

John 15 is one of my favorites and you did a great job of fleshing out what it means in our life with Christ…This: “God decides how and when the fruit will take place. (Again, not me).” A great post…Thank you 🙂

    Bethany says February 4, 2015

    Dolly – Yep, still working on taking myself out of that equation! Glad He still wants me anyway! Thanks for coming by!

Susan Shipe says February 4, 2015

I always enjoy what you write and this one is no exception. Those branches are very dear to me. Years ago I wrote under the moniker “A Pruned Branch”, (before Internet and blogs), I’ve even published a year’s devotional named the same. It is my desire to stay pruned because in the pruning is when the really good fruit is produced. When we are a branch, a branch that desires to grow and spread with luscious fruit hanging from it, then get ready for the pruning shears in God’s hand! Ouch. But necessary and needful! xo

    Bethany says February 4, 2015

    Susan – WOW! I want to read more! I imagine your smile over there just perked up when reading this post! That’s just neat!

Britta says February 4, 2015

Yes. Remain. Remain humble. Remain available. Remain flexible…He has shown me that too. Isn’t He good? He does what we need, not what we want if it is not in His plan for us. Stopping by from 3 word Wednesday…Good to see you again Bethany! 🙂 Your words hit me at just the right time 🙂

    Bethany says February 4, 2015

    Hi Britta! Remain is such a powerful word! I’m glad we connected again too!

Kristin Hill Taylor says February 4, 2015

Yes, yes, yes. Such a good reminder of where we are rooted. I’ve been known to rush into good things that turn out not to be great things for my life. I’m thankful for God’s grace and second chances. Thanks for linking up at #ThreeWordWednesday.

    Bethany says February 4, 2015

    Kristin – I look forward to reading your comments my friend! Missed connecting with you!

~Karrilee~ says February 4, 2015

So Much Amen, my friend! Man, how many times have I jumped ahead of Him just trying to help? 😉 And John 15? One of my favorites! Loved this!

    Bethany says February 4, 2015

    Kinda funny – I disliked John 15 for the longest time because of the repetition! Now that I’ve memorized so much of it, I get why He emphasizes these parts! It’s easier said than done!

Anita Ojeda says February 4, 2015

I love this, sweet friend! It’s so hard to give up control and learn to just remain–but it’s so important (I’d love to pick the flavor, color and texture of the fruit I bear, not to mention when I think it’s ripe and who I think should benefit from it). The next time I get my tail tied in a knot about how things aren’t going my way, I’ll lift my eyes to the nearest tree and remember that I just need to remain.

    Bethany says February 4, 2015

    Anita – YAY! So good to hear your voice! You hit it right on the head – remain requires giving up control. I like control. I feel like I need control. I’m still a work in progress!

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    Bethany says February 4, 2015

    Thanks for visiting Laura!

Debra Alexander says February 4, 2015

Love your graphics and the reminder that we are first I him if we want to produce fruit….from another jump in there person.

    Bethany says February 4, 2015

    Debra – All jumpers are allowed here! Thanks so much friend!!

Becky Keife says February 5, 2015

God decides…words to live by. This is such a foundational passage to our faith and you have illuminated it beautifully.

    Bethany says February 5, 2015

    Great to hear from you Becky!

Beth S. says February 5, 2015

Remain in His love. Just sitting here re-reading this post and soaking in it’s truth. “I am just a branch. A branch with huge dreams of producing fruit with Him and through Him…but first I am simply a branch in Him.”
Good stuff.

Tiffany says February 5, 2015

So blessed to be your downstairs neighbor at #threewordwednesday. I related to your words here, Bethany – that desire to run ahead and charge the goal with the best of intentions, but often not surrendering an ounce of the control. So glad God is patient with us! And that yes, by abiding in Him, remaining close and listening for His voice, He proves that His plans are always so much greater than the ones we go chasing after – His ways are so much higher.

    Bethany says February 11, 2015

    Right on Tiffany! I’m so glad I’m not the only one with that running ahead of God problem!!!

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