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He Sings Over Me Part 1

Today, I’m starting a fun 3 day series sharing a tradition our family started upon the birth of our first kiddo back in 2008. 


CONGRATULATIONS to Jamie G! She won the “Before Amen” Riding On Abba’s Shoulders book giveaway! Enjoy Jamie! For those that entered and didn’t win…hold on…oh yes, there’s more! I’m sponsoring another giveaway in November too! 

For those curious about the Before Amen Proverbs 31 Online Bible Study through Proverbs 31 ministries…here’s a few exciting notes and links to get you started! 

  • Here is info about the Before Amen study…it’s FREE! You just need an email address and the book! Sign-up for the study for free here
  • For every study, Proverbs 31 has a few conference calls with some pretty amazing guests! For this study, the conference calls are FREE for those signed-up to do the FREE study (did you catch they are doing this FREE?!?!). So click here to sign-up for the calls and learn more. I included a fun little video about the free conference calls below too…enjoy! 
  • Lastly, if you are interested in joining a small group for the Before Amen study, click here to learn more. As a Proverbs 31 ministries Online Bible Study Small Group Leader, I can tell you what a difference it makes digging into Gods Word while sharing and building authentic relationships with other women all around the US. It is life changing! If you are interested in joining my small group, enter group 44 in the box provided (this doesn’t guarantee a spot – it’s simply first come, first serve but we have limits in order to keep SMALL groups, well…small!). 
  • Any questions? If so…just leave them in the comments!  


Ok…back on topic! 

During this 31 Whispers With Abba series, I’ve shared so many simple, daily occupancies that God has used to simply have me stop, breathe in His presence and draw me to Himself. These events can easily be overlooked if I lose my focus or get sucked in by the rush of needed expectations. Most of these whispers have been completely unintentional on my part…just caught in awe that God chose to take part in my ordinary by making a moment extraordinary. 

God does that. He is simply there waiting for our attention. 

Even if we feel like His comforting touch is ever so far away, we still look, we still wait and we place our burdens in His hands. 

Even if that burden is your own flesh and blood.

My Youngest’s Song…

My first night home with our youngest son, I found myself alone in his little place of our house. His nursery was decorated so perfectly, knowing full well that this neatness would only last for a few months. You see, I have two older boys…I get boys. I get mess. It’s my life, enough said. 

Before our youngest was released from the hospital, we were told that he failed his newborn hearing screening and had a very high potential of being completely deaf for the rest of his life. Unknown to me at that time, we would be seeing a mix of doctors before he even turned 1 month old stretching from right down the street to nearly four hours away. 

My mind whirled. 

My heart sank.

My tears started to flow freely that first night I rocked him to sleep in our home. 

You see, I started a tradition with our first child that I had to keep, no matter what. When each child of mine was born, I gave them a song. Each song I sing to them nightly before bed. Every night. It’s just what we do…and it’s only a mommy and son thing (daddy sings “Itsy Bitsy Spider” and “Frosty.”) But every night, before the door shuts, I sing to my boys the songs God placed on my heart to give them upon their entrance to this world – my world. 

His world. 

As my chair rocked back and forth, I remember thinking, “Why bother singing God? It’s not like he can hear me. Why bother?”

I was exhausted, frustrated…and angry with God. 

Yet, something inside of me wanted to sing this to my baby boy, whether he could hear it or not. It was my momma’s heartbeat and my prayer for my child. 

Perhaps you know the tune?

Oh God You are my God

And I will forever praise You

I will seek You in the morning

And learn to walk in Your ways

And step by step You lead me

And I will follow You all of my days

This was my prayer, my song for my child. I could sing it to him now, even if he wasn’t able to hear my shaking voice. I knew his heart felt my love – Abba’s love for him…and that all that mattered. 

And as I sing and hear Abba singing over me, I find myself whispering back this Psalm to God:

O God, you are my God; I earnestly search for you. My soul thirsts for you; my whole body longs for you in this parched and weary land where there is no water. I have seen you in your sanctuary and gazed upon your power and glory. Your unfailing love is better than life itself; how I praise you! I will praise you as long as I live, lifting up my hands to you in prayer. (Psalms 63:1-4 NLT)

Abba is looking for our best:

He isn’t looking for a self-confident step…

He isn’t looking for a loud step…

He isn’t looking for a well-lit step…

But He is looking for our best step of faith. 

This was my best step in that moment. It was all I had. It was all I could give. 


A few weeks ago, I found myself again, with my youngest, repeating our nightly tradition. As he is a tad bigger now at 18 months old, we still rock, I still sing…some nights are better than others. Yet this night filled my heart. As I started singing, his chest vibrated against mine as our voices matched melodies. His attempt at words was very different…but he knew his song – our song. He sang so poeticky as we rocked.

I would get softer, he would get softer.

I would stop, he would stop.

We smiled together. 

The very first night that each of my kids started singing with me…that song that God let grow in my heart for their lives – that is the daily moment I long for. Because it’s those songs that bring me closer to Abba as my heart melts together with my sons.  

One song, one step, one day at a time. 


What steps are you struggling with today? Feel free to share in the comments! 

About the Author Bethany

Hello and welcome to Step Out And Thrive Ministries! My name is Bethany Boring and I am proud to be called a child of God before any other title or role. I am a mom to 3 amazing boys. I enjoy writing for this Step Out And Thrive community and walking with you as we venture through the ups and downs of life together. I am an ICF trained Certified Professional Christian Life Coach (Christian Coach Institute Graduate), Motivational and Inspirational Speaker, mentor, Certified Human Behavioral Consultant (DISC Personality) and an author. As always - dare to do more than just survive, step out and thrive!

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Elaine Mingus (@SuperRadWriter) says October 28, 2014

First, I highlighted the text because it was SOOOO good…but then I saw your image and I pinned your image to Pinterest.

    Bethany says October 28, 2014

    Thanks Elaine! I’m still learning the whole Pinterest world! I guess I need to learn a bit quicker!

Zohary says October 28, 2014

Great post! I have been struggling with a difficult relationship (with a child) and have been praying for wisdom and I’ve been feeling God say to just take it step by step. Thank you, you post is so timely for me.

    Bethany says October 28, 2014

    Praying for your next step right now my friend!

Sarah Travis says October 28, 2014

Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story of love 🙂 For me right now it is the step by step of going to work very unsure of where we will be even a month from now. It’s light on the next step…praising God in the morning and trusting Him all of my days <3

    Bethany says October 28, 2014

    But you are putting your shaking hand in His, knowing full well He is right there with every patient step you take. Prayed for you just now my friend.

Rachel Shewmaker says October 28, 2014

What a beautiful story. You have an amazing heart and the love you have for your boys can be felt through your words. Thank you so much for sharing. Blessing to you and your beautiful family.

    Bethany says October 28, 2014

    Thanks for stopping by Rachel!

Debbie W. says October 28, 2014

Bethany you brought tears to my eyes. Such a beautiful story. With all we’ve been through with Colt this just blesses my heart. I love singing to him. My voice is so ugly but he loves my singing. I’m picking out a song for him, my first grandbaby and next Wed when he’s here grandma is singing him down for his nap. Love you girl.

    Bethany says October 28, 2014

    Oh Debbie! This just made my night! I can’t wait to hear which song God gives you for him! Exciting! Love you my friend!

Missy says October 28, 2014

Bethany, I want you to be MY mama! What a tender and sweet tradition of love! I love reading how other people make special memories and what they hold dear, with regards to their families. Beautiful.

    Bethany says October 28, 2014

    Thanks Missy! These are my favorite three moments of my day! Wouldn’t miss them for the world!!!

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