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Happy Birthday Jesus

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A few weeks ago I was approached with the opportunity to teach the 1st through 2nd grade class at my home church. The assignment, if I chose to accept it, was to guide this class through the first three Sundays of December. As a former children’s minister of 9 years, I knew how much extra energy it would take to add this responsibility onto my crowded Christmas schedule.

That’s why after a few hours of contemplation (and the encouragement of my own 1st grader) I said, “Yes.”

I guess you could say we ended up going off the lesson a tad, with permission of course.

By the end of our first Sunday together, I discovered none of the kids had ever experienced a basic birthday party, let alone a birthday party for Jesus.

Oh you know I was all over that!

The following Sunday the kids made their plan of how to really celebrate Jesus in a new creative way. They would make a video, expressing how they would tell the story of Christ’s birth to their friends as well as sharing what His birth personally meant to them. Seriously, this was completely their idea. I provided the video camera and they provided the talent.

Because of privacy laws, I have included the MP3 of the video below for your enjoyment. The entire video ended up being just short of 5 minutes long. Each student began the video holding a baby Jesus doll and sharing what they would say to Jesus at His party. They each completed a picture for Jesus as well (and as you can tell by the mp3, they got pretty interesting!).


After singing “Happy Birthday” they acted out Luke 2 told in their own words. I sat in awe just holding the camera as they never even peeked again at the Bible text, but told it all, in order, from memory.

I learned a few things from my time with this class:

  1. Christmas is best celebrated through the heart of a child. 
  2. It’s okay to ask questions. In fact, how can we really be awed by the Christmas presence of Jesus without asking these important questions? 
    1. Did Jesus have big feet?
    2. How old was Mary really?
    3. Did Joseph play football?
    4. Was it cold or hot?
    5. What did it smell like that night?
    6. Was it even night?
    7. Was baby Jesus comfortable?
    8. Did Jesus tell his friends he was born in a feeding trough? I wouldn’t…that’s just disgusting!
  3. Kids are the best at talking TO Jesus, from their heart. Adults miss this. 
    1. Jesus, you are my hero and I want to know you better.
    2. Jesus, thanks for turning my bad guys into good guys.
    3. Jesus, I want to believe you are real.
    4. I love you so much Jesus. Thank you for dying on the cross for me.
  4. Birthday cake was meant to be shared. Don’t celebrate alone. In fact, make the time to invite others to your party. After all, Jesus did. 

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I’ll be truthful. I struggle with saying “No.” I have really worked hard to draw boundaries in my life by having tools I can use to gage my physical, emotional, financial and spiritual ability to meet the requests of what is being asked of me. I came close to turning down this teaching opportunity. God used my time with these kids to bring me back to the mystery and the awe factor that Jesus brought to our rushed world. Jesus came to us as a child. Who better to celebrate Christmas with than kids who really get it?

May you gain the faith of a child this Christmas to go beyond the typical Christmas motions and ask the questions that bring you back to the awe factor God intended.

Merry Christmas friends!



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About the Author Bethany

Hello and welcome to Step Out And Thrive Ministries! My name is Bethany Boring and I am proud to be called a child of God before any other title or role. I am a mom to 3 amazing boys. I enjoy writing for this Step Out And Thrive community and walking with you as we venture through the ups and downs of life together. I am an ICF trained Certified Professional Christian Life Coach (Christian Coach Institute Graduate), Motivational and Inspirational Speaker, mentor, Certified Human Behavioral Consultant (DISC Personality) and an author. As always - dare to do more than just survive, step out and thrive!

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Susan Shipe says December 23, 2015

I think in this case “you chose the right YES!” Loved every part of this. Christmas Joy to you and your family!

    Bethany says December 24, 2015

    Thank you Susan! Merry Christmas!

Lauren Gaskill | Making Life Sweet says December 23, 2015

This post brings so much joy to my heart! You’re right — kids celebrate Christmas oftentimes more authentically and emotionally than we do! Merry Christmas to you! Happy to be your neighbor at Coffee For Your Heart. <3

    Bethany says December 24, 2015

    Lauren, so glad we can both celebrate the authenticity we see in kids! Merry Christmas!

Gina B says December 23, 2015

I love this post! How wonderfully you handled your assignment, and how blessed you are to share Jesus with these kids!! Merry Christmas and thanks for sharing!

    Bethany says December 24, 2015

    Merry Christmas Gina and thanks for sharing the joy of this assignment with me!

Dianne Thornton says December 23, 2015

What great ideas! It sounds like your own first grader was “all over that” right along with you!

    Bethany says December 24, 2015

    Yes he was Dianne! He has watched the video a zillion times! Merry Christmas!

Deb Weaver says December 23, 2015

How precious! Yes, may we enter our Savior’s presence with a childlike wonder! I linked up at Tell Your Story after you; I’m delighted for you that you said yes to this assignment!

    Bethany says December 24, 2015

    Thanks Deb! Merry Christmas!

Caytie says December 23, 2015

Love this!!! Yes, through the eyes of babes!! Merry Christmas!!!

    Bethany says December 24, 2015

    Yes Caytie! Exactly! Merry Christmas!

Carly says December 23, 2015

Great post. I love your ideas, and I love the questions children ask and the comments they make. They always help me see things in a fresh way.

    Bethany says December 24, 2015

    Carly, I love how children help me rediscover things! So true! Merry Christmas!

Kristin Hill Taylor says December 23, 2015

Our Jesus Birthday Party with friends is one of my very favorite holiday traditions each year. You’re right, the kids get it. Thanks for sharing at #ThreeWordWednesday. Merry Christmas, Bethany!

    Bethany says December 24, 2015

    Kristin, I’d love to be at that party! Merry Christmas!

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